How many times have we looked at something wistfully and thought, "oh i wish i had that". i was doing the very thing today, looking at some photos of my friends and thinking "how i wish i was there and doing the very same things". but then i just realised that i am so happy at the place i am in my life right now. i also know that i will get what i deserve, albeit it might take time. seldom do we all think like that. hell i would never think like that myself, not some 11 months ago. i think all of us should just realise that we should be happy with what we have and what we get. easier said than done i know, but not impossible. trust me, it makes life so much easier. now when i think a year back, i used to let every lil thing make me feel bad and the worst feeling of all was wishing for something that wasn't not mine. i am not saying i don't think that way now, i do, but in about ten minutes after feeling that way, i also feel, hell i am happy with what i have. there are so many people who might not have what i have. do you know it is so easy to think that way, but the biggest trouble is how long it takes us to think it. i feel very happy today, proud even that i am not letting things get to me, that i can turn it into something positive. i just wish all of us do that and make our lives easier and i hope after penning my thoughts down on this topic, the next time i feel the grass is greener on the other side, i immediately come to my senses and realise that my place i am in in my life is amazing too.
PS : My dear husband, Sudarshan chitappa and my mother in law. Thanks for helping me out so much and teaching me such wonderful things.
Friday, March 12, 2010
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Good article mam.. keep writing....
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